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ADVICE ? OF THE WEEK! I Don't Wanna Go

I am really desperate, Brigette. Please answer this.

This may sound like some poor kid crying into you feeding you a sob story but its not and I'm crying and I can't write for long.

My parents just got divorced a little while ago, and now I have to choose between them. Of course my mother is moving almost across the country, so I can stay here and lose my mom or go with her and lose everyone AND my dad.

To top it all off, my grandmother died a week ago. I'm sad and worn out and tired of tears and yelling and grief. What do I do?

I have to pull it together!
Help?
Sincerely,
In Need Of Love
In Need Of Love:

I just wanna reach out and give you a HUUUUUGE hug right now, because I think you need one. (This is Jocelyn, by the way, not Brigette.)
Okay, well, there's only one person that can make this decision for you. And that's you. Think it through. Your parents will come up with a custody plan, won't they? So you can talk it over with them. Make sure they know how hard this is on you, too. It's not just their battle.

And about your grandmother: I'm so sorry. Your parents must be going through grief, too, even if they're not showing it in the right ways. Don't be afraid to tell them how you feel: they ARE your parents. They still love you.

Love and HUGS,
Jocelyn

Dramatic Diva

Okay. I seriously have noo idea why people hate me. I mean, people call me a dramatic diva. Idk what there prob is, i just enjoy other peoples bizzness and they get mad if i try to get into it. but isnt that what middle school is? sheesh! what should i tell them so i dont get called a dramatic diva? or just dramatic cuz being a diva isnt so bad, broadwayyy
~Diva

Diva,
You might want to tone it down a littttle bit. It might just be me, but some things are meant to be kept private. People do share some things, but things that are secret they don't want told to anyone, and you should respect that.

To get them to stop, you should start keeping things to yourself if people confide in you. And if they're mad, let them cool down. If they want to tell anyone, show them that they can confide in you by being polite and helpful, and a good listener.

Drama isn't always bad, but TRUST me: in middle school, staying out of it is always a good thing.


Hope I helped,
Jocelyn

Oops?

Hey Jocelyn,

well yesterday I was talking to my crush like in person at this kinda social thing my school has, and... i was sick and i like threw up all over his shoes. this is really distressing.help. please?

xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxo
TheUltimateKlutz

Ultimate,

Ohmygosh, I'm so sorry! But it's not your fault at all, right? Just remember that. NOT your fault. Talk to him later, don't really bring it up, but work into it. If he doesn't understand that you couldn't really do anything about it, then he's not worth you or your time. Trust me. A good guy will understand that it couldn't be helped and take you in just the same.

Hope I helped,
Jocelyn

♥Got Love?♥ Advice Column

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Questions that are CLOSE TO MY HEART... <3 :) I'll always keep these on here.

Why Can't We Talk????

I have two things:

1. There is this girl that i like and we were going out for like 2 days and then we decided to break-up bcz she need to get to no me more, and then in like a few months im going to ask her if she wants to out with me again, and she is getting a little mean, but we r like rly good friends right now.Should i ask her out again? & Wat should i do about us being friends and her being mean?
2. When we talk its rly quiet, and i dont rly have anything to talk about. Do u have any ideas or topic to talk about, or anything that i should do to make it not so quiet?

Benny Boy

"Benny Boy",
Haha, cute name! Yeah, so about your problemo:

Aw, that stinks about the sudden break up. Was she already your friend, or was she new or just from a different friend group or something? That might affect it.

Good choice, getting to know each other better. If she's getting mean, don't ask her yet. See how it goes. Then, if the mean-ness (is that a word?) fades away, you may want to keep going then ask her. If it doesn't, she probably doesn't like you.

For the second question: Well, talk about school. Something funny happen? Tell her. Something... weird happen? Talk about it. Talk about friends, incidents, whatever. Anything you can think of. Interests, sports, hobbies, whatever. If that's too "lame", talk about... a school dance? A big test? You may even talk about *gasp* a rumor. (lol, I do it a lot so no worries! *guilty*)

Write back if you need to,
Best of Luck,
Brigette

I Like Him, But He Likes Her...

hey brigget,well, i have this total crush on this kid in my grade, since last year, and he is in none of my clases, but there is something about him that i still can't stop thinking about him. when i was just about to talk to him in the hallway, he asks out this other girl. What DO I DO??????sincerly
katelin
btw, i love you site!! and i miss abigail too

Dear Katelin,
Pretty name, by the way! Spelled differently, too... Cool! Anyway, on the right track, you have a tough problem. If you really can't stop thinking about him, you definitely really, really, REALLY like him. If he asked out another girl, chances are he doesn't like you the way you like him. If you still feel like that about him, well-take a chance. Tell him how you feel. Hey, you never know-maybe he'll start to like you, because you had the courage to talk to him, even to tell him you liked him. I know guys who would really like a girl like that.

Please, please, please write back if there's any problems or trouble at all!
Best of Luck,
Brigette

ok, well, i don't think there is a way i can tell him that i like him, i mean he is aways around the girl and do you think i should wait for him to break up with her?? we were so close last year and b for tat and all of a sudden he barley gets to talk to me heellllppp katelin

Hello again, Katelin!
Well, I don't know. Do they seem like they really like each other? If so, they'll probably stay together for a while. If not, then maybe you should wait. But hey, without chances, life is boring, right? If you really, really, like him, I'd suggest to just tell him.
 
xoxo,
Brigette

P.S. Thanks for writing back-do it again if you need to!
srry if i am getting anoying by commenting soo much. You site is awesome!! anyway, yeaah, they rele do seam to "puppy love " eachother. when ever i see the girl, i know that a few seconds later he will appear ( and he rele does) if i risk,.... hmmmm, i think i would just go bazerk, lol. any other suggestions?

Heeey, Katelin! We're like bffls right now, we're conversing so much!!! LOL
Well, then maybe he's not the right guy. Maybe he is-maybe you should wait. This is pretty tough, but I think that he's reallly deep into this other girl right now. You should find someone else, too-then maybe later things will work out.
Keeep talking to me, Katelin!!!
Your bffl (haha),
Brigette